Lovers' Lane

Virgo in Love

Posted 08/29/2019

The Virgo attuned lover will most likely be attracted to intelligence and practicality. He is wired toward a commitment to growth himself, so anyone whom he would perceive as slothful or not evolving toward improvement in some fashion is unlikely to interest him. In fact, he needs a plan in place over which he can have charge. He may be slow and cautious around warming

up or forming a relationship quickly because the thought of losing control can be downright scary. And, he's very discriminating.

Overt displays of emotion may frighten him because anything that's unpredicatable may throw him for a loop, but he does appreciate honesty and will listen with a logical approach. Showy displays of feelings are not his style; rather, he will demonstrate his love through service. He'll want to "do for" you.

His tendency to want to be of service may incline him toward being something of a workaholic. Encouraging relaxation is a service you can provide for him. He'll like an intellectual wit and activities that engage his analytical skills. He'll appreciate a stable, orderly environment and an attention to detail in whatever joint effort is afoot. He will contribute to the very best of his ability, but probably his greatest fear is criticism. He is inwardly already judging where he falls short. Gentle reminders about his levels of competence, intelligence, and skills will go far toward securing his loyalty and love. Bolster his sense of appreciating

his own levels of achievement without criticism, and you'll have a loyal partner who is and honest and genuine hard worker.

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